Afficted

by Roberta Cykon

Afficted...

By Pastor Bobby Schuller

"Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God's people and also members of his household..."
- Ephesians 2:19

When Notre Dame University presented religious writer and activist, Dorothy Day, with its Laetare Medal, they thanked her for "comforting the afflicted and afflicting the comfortable." And that's the the purpose of the church, of every church - to comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable.

Every church is meant to form into us life, discipleship, and growth. It's a crucible of being in relationship with someone you didn't pick, someone that drives you crazy, someone that's totally different than you culturally. However, being in a spiritual family with them, you find that the pain and annoyance is so good for you. You need that. Trust me, because you're probably driving some other people crazy yourself!

Within Christianity, within the church, there is something mystic and wonderful that happens between believers where tradition, denomination, or culture doesn't seem to matter. People who really love Jesus and are filled with the Holy Spirit have an automatic camaraderie with one another.

I experienced this all the time growing up in the church where you would meet another Christian, a complete stranger, you could almost see Jesus in their eyes, and you'd say, "You're a Christian, aren't you?" Or, you would get to know someone and, all of a sudden, you'd know that they were a believer - we're bound, we're family, this is a brother or sister I've never met. This is someone I'm going to spend eternity with.

Wow! This is an amazing thing - God tying us together through our shared belief in him.

Prayer: Dear Lord, I need your help. Sometimes I'm not patient with others, even when they share my faith in you. Help me to grow in camaraderie with others as I grow in you. Amen.

Reflection: Describe a time when you were at odds with another believer. How did God help you through the circumstance

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